Our life is a small house with just one window and no doors in it. The heart is the window which is often covered by curtains of joy or sorrow
or the so called “cool” or the fancy “I don’t care what you are” curtains. How
much ever spacious our home might be, we always live near the window to see who
is checking us out, we paint the exteriors and look to present our house well
(well, I mean your monthly parlour visit, fancy clothes, hair styles, perfumes).
We forget to buy new things for the insides of our home and also to dispose our
garbage (meant our negative thoughts, come out of the toilet thing!!) When
people get closer to our home (life), they check out on the cool exteriors, and come
straight to the window. They don’t see the real us but the mere reflection of
what they want us to be. KNOCK KNOCK!! And the poor heart opens up with love
and now it is time you show your home to the person. The first thing you do
when a person enters the house, you shut the window! And after that you people
would have fun, fight, make urgghh …. Blah.. blah… blah and live in the house
for a while happily. Once inside the house with the windows closed, nobody
cares about the exteriors, all they want is the SPACE inside the house(still
life). How much space you can afford in your home (life again) to them is what
that will make them share the house longer with you.
So must we design
our house? Either you build “the perfect home” which I guess is bit tough or
you are better at having a transparent window and take off the curtain. Now people will see what you are
and what you want to be and other things ( interests, skills, hobbies ETC). To
have your window transparent, you need to have a clean home too. I mean no
habits or practises that would give the person (at the window) the “eewwwww” kinda' moments. A little cleanliness and some class is all people expect once they
enter your home. I bet you that nobody is going to check out on your exteriors once
they have entered your home. Also one more thing, give them the keys(freedom)
so that they can enter and leave whenever they want to. Like they might visit
on their friends, night outs etc. If one has the trust , this would not be a
problem. And always remember to take care of the person in your home. Cheers.
THANKS FOR READING MATE!
:) :)
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